Self Motivation

“You are the best and no one is better than you” this is a motivating line to motivate somebody who has just lost the hope to be what he/she wanted to be. I tell this statement very often to my friends or the near dear one to motivate them or to uplift their confidence that has lowered a bit. But when sometime in my own life I face a similar situation it’s very hard for me to motivate myself.

When people around me are in trouble I talk to them and try to understand their problem and even if I am not much of a help to them I at least manage to lower their worries. What I really want to talk about is how to motivate myself. The perfect term for this is “Self Motivation”. When the question arises of self motivation it’s really get tougher sometime. The people who are very private and are afraid to share their thoughts are very capable of motivating others but when it comes to them they are like so much caught in the situation that they end up stressing themselves.

Many a time in life we get ourselves in to situations where we totally lose hope that everything is going to be fine. We feel so very dejected that we fail to motivate ourselves. So we end up crying or just confining ourselves and creating a lonely world of our own. And we don’t allow people to get in and help us. It’s not right to do so. When we are unable to self motivate ourselves we should allow or just see around people may be waiting there to help us to motivate us whereas we were ignoring them.

Very few people know the art of self motivation and the others those who are unable to do so should not be ashamed of seeking help from others. Coz life never is easy and false ego can just takes us done.
We all are born alone and will die alone but at least the time we spend on this beautiful earth we need to socialize and to get well with people around us. Motivating or inspiring other is a part of socializing along with that getting motivated and inspired is also a part of socializing.

But it’s also necessary for us to learn the art of self motivation. We can start up with giving our self a little quality time that we can spend with our self. Start with talking to yourself about your own life your own dreams, plans for future or even the problems that we are facing in your day to day life. This will help you in easing your stress level. Another way to self motivation is to write down your problem, your dreams, your plans for future or the goals that you want.

I know these solutions may seem little awkward at first but it will help you when you put it into use. Coz it helped me and I’m sure it will help you. Now you can say that self motivation can be easy sometime.

So get up and get yourself, self motivated from today. But if you are unable to do so try out the solution and if that doesn’t work you can always seek the help of those who are waiting out there eagerly to help you yes start looking at the people around you whom you have been ignoring or taking them for granted for years.

My Life

It was for long that I have been alone searching for something that would change my life will fill my life with some kind of fun or excitement. The way life has been going for past few years it seems I am trapped my self in a maze where I am just wandering and is unable to find my way out. Past few years has made me so numb that I am just can see no more the opportunities that are lying in front of me. Being a Pisces I always try to be in the world of my dreams where I can be what I want and can do what I like but as soon as I step into the real world it’s just hard to believe that life is not that easy to live like my dreams. I don’t have a hunger for money or fame I just wanted a life that I can enjoy, a life whose every moment is something special which include fun, there may be times where I have to deal with stress but that’s ok that I can manage. The numbness is growing its making me so weak from inside so hollow from inside that I have stop reacting to the world out side. Sometimes I so stressed that I can’t smile when I look at someone can’t laugh to the joke that everybody is enjoying can’t feel the happiness. Acting like a zombie all I can think about is work, work and more work I want to change my career but that’s the craziest thing that I can do as I am so done with the work I’m doing. All you do is stress yourself for 8 hours a day, 48 hours a week, 192 hours a month and 2304 hours a year its just a average figure it can exceed this a I have not included the “extra” time we work. Sometime I feel I should visit a temple sit there for a while chant a few mantra’s and share a few thoughts with my lord but I can’t coz I have to work think of codes …..
Sometimes I want to go to the beach sit there watch the sunset and lay down in the sand and watch the night sky ,count the stars and feel free but I can’t do that to get to the beach I have to take a 2 hour trip….. Sometimes I feel like walking with someone special with his hand in my hand sharing warm thoughts and making future planning but I can’t coz I’m so busy in working that I don’ get time to socialize…… I’m really tired of the way my life is going I just want to do something more “EXCITING which I will enjoy doing” Can I find something like that oh lord please help me !!!!!!!